Therapy is clinical mental health treatment. It can help with emotional overwhelm, trauma-related symptoms, anxiety, depression, and patterns that are impacting your day-to-day functioning. Therapy with me is provided through Rula and may be covered by insurance.

Coaching is non-clinical, future-focused support. It’s designed to help you build clarity, accountability, boundaries, self-trust, and follow-through. Coaching is private pay and not billed to insurance.

If you’re not sure which one fits, start with the Raise Your Standard button or Contact Me button at the top of the page and I’ll help guide you.

To request therapy, complete the Therapy Inquiry Form on my website. I’ll review your request and contact you to see our fit and availability. If we process, I will send you my Telehealth provider platform referral link so you can complete onboarding, insurance verification, and scheduling. I offer 1:1 coaching sessions built around clarity, accountability, values work, and real-life tools. No fluff. No fix-you energy. Just grounded support from someone who gets it.

Soon, I’ll be launching monthly group sessions—interactive, guided, and real as hell. Think: psychoeducation, values-led prompts, and honest conversation without the labels.

groups and coaching is not therapy.
It’s support that hits different.

Absolutely. Lo Standard can complement therapy, but it’s not a replacement.
A lot of people use this space to go deeper into what they’re already exploring—or to prep for therapy they’re planning to start.

I’m a huge advocate for mental health treatment. Therapy is always encouraged for personalized, clinical support.

Yes — therapy is offered through a Telehealth provider platform I utilize, and insurance is handled through that platform. You can list your insurance on the Therapy Inquiry Form so I can do a quick pre-check, and the provider platform will confirm the final eligibility during onboarding. I also have a private pay option.

Coaching are private pay and are not billed to insurance.

Because of the time, energy, and planning that goes into each session, all sales are final. For full details, please refer to the refund and cancellation policy. If something comes up, reach out—I’m human. I’ll always do my best to work with you.

Virtual or In-person options available. In-person are held in my office suite located in North Park San Diego

Ask away.

email me at thelostandard@gmail.com or connect through my instagram @the.lostandard

Yes. I offer a Free consultation Call (10–15 minutes) to confirm goals, eligibility/fit, and next steps. This is not consider a session or confirmed therapeutic/coaching working relationship .

Coaching is virtual and private pay. I offer a Free Consultation Call (10–15 min) to confirm goals, eligibility/fit, and next steps (no coaching provided on this call). A Standard Strategy Session (60 min) is $125 and is a one-time introductory session to map patterns, clarify your standards, and create a short-term plan. A 1:1 Coaching Session (90 min) is $175. The Monthly Standard package is $650 and includes 4 coaching sessions (90 min each) plus 1 Standard Planning Session (60 min) (5 total sessions). The Standard Reset package is $1,000 (the best deal imo) and includes 8 coaching sessions (90 min each) plus 1 Standard Planning Session (60 min) (9 total sessions). Both packages include brief between-session messaging support for accountability and clarification (not crisis support), with response times typically within 2 business days .

My coaching style is direct, supportive, and practical. We focus on patterns, standards, and real-life follow-through — not just talking in circles. Sessions are structured and designed to help you leave with clarity, tools, and a plan you can actually use.

Coaching is a good fit for things like:

• Perfectionism

• Overthinking

• Self-doubt

• Codependency / relationship patterns

• Boundaries

• Life transitions

• Accountability and consistency

• Building self-trust and clear standards

If you’re unsure whether coaching or therapy is the better fit, I can help you sort that out.

I typically review inquiries and respond within 1–2 business days.

Submitting a form does not guarantee scheduling or availability.

Submitting a form is a request for information/scheduling and does not establish a therapy or coaching relationship.

No. This website and contact forms are not monitored 24/7 and are not for emergencies.

If you need urgent support, please call 911 or 988 (U.S.).